Correction: the upper-middle class has living standards that are the envy of the world. If you take the "net living standard" of our entire population, it's arguably really shitty compared to places like Canada or France.
America is about competeing. This creates winners and losers. By and large, the average American is a HUGE winner compared to 90% of the world, even if they are "losing" compared to others. P.s why shouldn't they be losing out if they are not as good? If I'm the 127,000th best lawyer....well sorry I guess.
Places like Canada or Switzerland have high living standards because they have the benefit of not having to run empires, but see the benefit from ours. IE get to export to us on seas we keep open and not have to really worry about speading a trillion dollars a year on their military.
Okay. I agree that people should be smarter with their money...
Good.
Which sucks for people who lose their job once they already have a family and then can't make enough to sustain. From basic sociology courses I've taken, it's pretty clear that the minimum standard of living is NOT covered by minimum wage alone.
When I say minimum wage it literally means you should be able to make enough to eat bread or noodles and have enough to maybe take the bus or walk to work just to earn enough to make it another day to work again. It's basically a harsh exsistance rather than actually being able to live and enjoy life. However, what I routinly see it people with cellphones, cable, and any number of things that I would consider luxory items complaining that they can't "make it" anymore on this wage. Well, no shit.
Just a few weeks ago, I was watching that AE intervention show. The lady was complaining she didn't have enough money for gas to get to work anymore. As she pulled a $6 pack of cigarettes out of the car.
This story is totally typical of unemployed people. Good job.
See above comments.
Your anecdotal experience means nothing when we're talking about the pervasive and wide-spread nature of this problem.
My anecdotal expirences would certainly form a statistical trend. People with several kids struggle more. People who spend their time on "trivial" tasks for years on end, spinning their wheels not working towards acheivement, end up less succesful. People who can't write or communicate effectively will struggle. People who do not keep up on their physical appearence will pay a price for it.
Do you believe America is a system based on achievement? Or is it more an ascribed system?
There's a little of both. That has always been the allure. There's the OPPORTUNITY to make it big no matter what your beginnings were. That's not to say that some people haven't been successful while being lazy, and that's not to see that some people who gave it their all every day ended up not succeeding.
Warren Buffet built his fortune from $2000 when he started investing as a 21 year old. Bill gates started microsoft from a basement.
And let me elaborate for a second here on what I mean: if you can rate how hard someone works with 0 being "not at all" and 10 being "as hard as possible" - do you believe two people, regardless of who they are born to and where they are raised, both working at a "7" WILL see equal success?
Of course not. Just like a business, individuals can be hampered by systemic or unique risk. However, I will say that there are opportunities for grants and assistance to help people pave their own way. The government loves to help boost people and turn them into productive citizens so as to not have to be burdened by supporting them. Of course being born in an affluent neighborhood and school district gives you a better chance than someone with shitty parents and a poor district.
Which is a greater predictor of future success: what family you are born to coupled with the geographic region you are raised in, or simply working hard?
A little story about the "importance" of family in acheiving your dreams. I worked in a miserable section 8 hell hole doing maintenance. It was the most vial and disgusting place on this earth filled with drug addicts and lazy ****. My aunt and uncle (the administrators) hired an accounting student in their office out of my same program and school. I was struggling to even be able to afford to attend school (I get ZERO assistance), and this girl drove around in a Mustang. I quit immediatly, and their decision rocked my world as a 19-20 year old kid (as you put it).
I could have easily let it destroy my dreams. I will never forgive them for it. A lot of people let things spiral out of control, give up, make excuses, or turn to drugs to dull pain.
Instead, I wore it as a cloak of defiance.
I graduated at the top of my class. I secured two accounting internships in school and built a relationship with an MBA and a CPA. Both of them served as mentors in my life, as professional references, and provided letters of recommendations. In the end, I got opportunities with all of the CPA firms that I wanted.
"Do not ever let anyone tell you that you cannot do something. You want something go get it. Period."